How to choose jewelry that reflects who you are

Choosing a piece of jewelry is more complex than it seems. Faced with a collection, one might feel drawn to something without quite knowing why — or, conversely, paralyzed by too many choices. Here are some ideas to help you find the jewelry that truly suits you.

 

Ask yourself what you want to say. Jewelry speaks — what do you want it to express? Your strength, your sensuality, your belonging to a value or a community? A piece that holds meaning for you will always be more satisfying than a piece that is simply "pretty."

 

Consider your wearing habits. Are you someone who wears a single piece of jewelry every day, or someone who likes to vary? Everyday jewelry should be durable, lightweight, and adaptable. Statement pieces can be bolder.

 

Trust your instinct. If something immediately attracts you, don't try to understand why. The attraction to a piece of jewelry is often more revealing of who you are than any analysis.

 

Consider the material. Silver, gilded brass, gold-plated — each metal has a different look on the skin and a different relationship to the passage of time. Artisan jewelry made from quality materials will age with you, acquiring a patina that gives it character.

 

The ideal piece of jewelry is the one you wear thinking, "this is exactly me."